
Living with Erythromelalgia is an online patient support community that is powered by BensFriends.org, a network of patient support communities for rare diseases. Our mission at Ben’s Friends is to ensure that patients living with rare diseases or chronic illnesses, as well as their caregivers, family, and friends, have a safe and supportive place to connect with others like them.
Erythromelalgia (EM) is a rare neurovascular pain disorder that can cause redness and pain in all parts of the body, but most frequently the extremities, such as the hands and feet. It is characterized by intense burning pain, severe redness (erythema), and increased skin temperature that may be episodic or almost continuous in nature. The specific underlying cause of EM remains unknown.
Erythromelalgia may occur either as a primary or secondary disorder (i.e. a disorder in and of itself or a symptom of another condition). Secondary erythromelalgia can result from small fiber peripheral neuropathy of any cause, essential thrombocytosis (erythromelalgia can also develop in the presence of normal platelet counts in patients with myeloproliferative disorder), hypercholesterolemia, mushroom or mercury poisoning, and some autoimmune disorders. Primary erythromelalgia is caused by mutation of the voltage-gated sodium channel α-subunit gene SCN9A.
LivingWithErythromelalgia.org is a virtual peer-to-peer community intended to be a safe place for patients and family members as young as age 12, to visit for information, discussion, venting and mutual support. Members come from many backgrounds. Some have a strong religious faith, and others no faith; some are children and others adults, rich and poor, graduate educated or taught by life. Our common denominators are that we share a life journey, and we try to help each other.
How is Ben’s Friends Different from Social Media and Other Support Sites?
Our mission at Ben’s Friends is to ensure that patients living with rare diseases or chronic illnesses, as well as their caregivers, family, and friends, have a safe and supportive place to connect with others like them.
We’re interested in you as a person, and in your struggles as a rare disease patient. But we don’t want to know your name or where you live. We won’t even allow you to use your real name when you register for one of our communities. Because when it comes to medical things, anonymity is important in our googly universe. Your information is never shared, and your activity never tracked by adware.
When Ben’s Friends asks for the country and region you live in, that’s in case your fellow members can recommend local resources and help, and so everyone knows what kind of medical system there is where you live. That’s important when it comes to giving and getting support. Because we are all about support, and we’re all in this together..
Ben’s Friends: Safe and Supportive.
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Posts on the different Ben’s Friends communities can be read by anyone on the internet. You can browse through the different topics and find most of the information you’re looking for but there are many things you won’t be able to do unless you create an account. These include:
Making your own posts. Although you’re able to find useful information just by reading other members’ posts, you might still have a lot of questions in your mind. Either you want to start a new topic to talk about them in detail or you want to reply to a comment on a thread. These won’t be possible unless you create a new user account.
Viewing other members’ profiles. Member profiles include information about the country or region they are from, whether they are a patient or a caregiver, and details about their disease and treatments. Maybe you came across an interesting post and you want to learn more about the member. Or maybe you’re looking for members who are from the same country as you. Having a user account allows you to see other member profiles and find information that may be relevant.
Sending private messages. Aside from being able to post publicly and commenting on a thread, having a user account also allows you to send private messages both to other members and moderators. In case you want to discuss a topic only with a specific person, this is possible by sending private messages when you have created your account.
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Latest Discussions
- Trying to try out Mexilitineby Hopeinthislife on July 30, 2026 at 1:08 am
Hey everyone! I’m trying to find a doctor willing to help me treat my Erythromelalgia! I want to try out mexilitine but having a hard time finding a doctor willing to let me try it out. I’m in the Dallas/Fort Worth area in Texas and was wondering if anyone is in the area and knows of a doctor that treats this condition! Thanks in advance:) 2 posts – 2 participants Read full topic
- Dilitiazem for high blood pressure affect on erythromelagiaby dara49 on July 15, 2026 at 8:19 pm
Were you told that you don’t have erythromylagia if you don’t have small fiber neuropathy? 3 posts – 3 participants Read full topic
- New Treatmentby JonAlan on July 13, 2026 at 5:28 pm
Hi, thanks for letting me join. I chose to participate when I discovered a treatment thats actually helping with type 1 EM. It was after learning that this disease ran in my family and that there was an actual explanation for the things that were happening to me and upon my listening to a doctor breakdown the pathogenesis of both forms that I started a successful campaign on specific nutrients that might be a benefit. For me the symptoms have been more neurological with the swelling of the feet and the burning sensation on the skin certainly being present but more as a side of effect of the neurological problem associated with it all. I started my course of treatments with a natural sodium blocker alpha lipoic acid I then also tried supplementing with potassium pills and even attempting to constrict my blood vessels with butcher’s broom. These various treatments occasionally assisted but after the doctor tried Ativan I went to a natural form of that which is passion flower and found that to be suitable as a replacement as well though none of these treatments actually gave any real relief. But it was after laying there and realizing that the trimmers that I was feeling in my nervous system were actually very similar to what could be present in someone who has Tourette’s or epilepsy that I considered an anticonvulsant and was absolutely floored when I discovered the news that was reported about cilantro. It seems that there is a decanol within that plant that is being researched for epilepsy because of It’s ability to prevent convulsion specifically by creating a persistent open state to the potassium channels Within neurochemistry. Having remembered and already knowing about the issue of persistent sodium channels and how potassium is what balances that I couldn’t wait for the 4th of July weekend to be over with so that I could go to the health food store and purchase a tincture of cilantro and give it a try. For me it actually works and while I do find myself still occasionally having to take Ibuprofen and also replenishing my electrolytes since I am burning through them about 10 times faster than the normal individual I am so relieved to have something that gives me a life of normalcy again. Because type 2 seems to be able to benefit from something as simple sometimes is taking aspirin and type 1 has seldom seen in positive response from something so mundane I felt it worthy of mention not just because somebody out there might be able to benefit from the treatment but because of the ramifications of what this might mean for the entire subject to the academic community 2 posts – 2 participants Read full topic
- Hi friends!by Jnorris220 on June 17, 2026 at 6:28 am
I’m 23 and and I live alone in Central Indiana. Recently, I’ve been feeling weak and having stabbing pains alongside my disease, and I had chills briefly the other night, but I think I’m better from that now, having Erythromelalgia really sucks in the sense that I feel so reliant on a fan or water constantly when flareups occur and then even when I’m slightly sick, I feel so hot and cold and uncomfortable and it feels like hell and I just in general I feel so weak compared to others. I often do a lot of moaning and groaning if I’m even just slightly sick. I also hate that when I try to work out it gets so much worse and so it’s hard to get myself in shape because it triggers flareups. It’s also hard to eat healthy and to be active in general and then with this condition it makes it so much worse, but despite that, I do eat some healthy things sometimes, and I try to walk around the neighborhood sometimes every night, but not always every week in order to get a few thousand steps in at night, especially since I don’t have a job and I’m taking school online. I have some really good friends online that I talk to regularly, but in person, I have basically no one now besides family on holidays, as my parents passed away and I have no siblings. So I’m looking for community and support and resources and treatments and relatable experiences with this rare disease. 3 posts – 3 participants Read full topic
- Does it ever get better?by Roo on June 8, 2026 at 6:43 pm
I’ve had EM for three years. It started in my toes. I thought it was due yo my fibromyalgia. I just lived with the pain , thinking There was nothing I could do. In April it moved into my ankles causing the pain to explode! I was finally able to see a doctor last week who prescribed Tegratol. I thought I had hope, but now it’s in my knees, and with weather heating up I can’t sleep more than thirty minutes before needing to soak my feet. The pain at night is so much worse at night that I can barely stand with the aid of crutches. I’m frightened, alone, and I don’t want to live like this. I don’t think there is hope. Does anyone get better? 8 posts – 6 participants Read full topic






